Brunswick-David Leo
Tondreau of Brunswick, Maine, was called home to our heavenly Father on
February 8, 2021.
Born in 1931, David is survived by his wife Phyllis (Jackie) Davis
Tondreau, his four children, Cathie Dittrich, Susan Tondreau-Dwyer, Lisa
Tondreau and David (Chip) Tondreau, Jr., his sons- and daughter-in-law Bob
Dittrich, Dwight Dwyer and Linda Cordovana, and five grandchildren, Ellie
Tondreau, Brigitte Tondreau, David Tondreau III, Alexis Fahrney and Clay
Tondreau.
David was born and
raised in Brunswick, the youngest child of Adjutor and Bernadette
Tondreau. He attended St. John the Baptist Catholic Grade School and
Brunswick High School, and received a degree in Management Engineering at
Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute (RPI) in Troy, NY. At RPI, he served in
the Reserve Officer Training Corps (ROTC), was president of Delta Phi
fraternity and fondly became ‘Dave’. After graduating from college, Dave
served as a commissioned officer in the U.S. Army, Second Armored
Division/Transportation Corps, and later as First Lieutenant in the U.S. Army
Reserves. When Dave returned from active military duty in Germany, he was
hired into management by AT&T in New York City. Dave had always wanted to
see the mountains, so he accepted a position at the operating telephone
company in West Virginia (Chesapeake & Potomac).
His forty-year career with ‘the phone company’ took him to several towns in
West Virginia where he served in leadership roles in traffic, construction,
engineering, and was appointed to lead a major company-wide restructuring
program. He was instrumental in helping the company and its workers
successfully navigate through turbulent times of change and resulting upheaval,
including numerous labor strikes that often became violent. Dave also
contributed to network design and operating innovations to extend and improve
service in the challenging mountainous and rural geography of the region. He
was brought to company headquarters in Washington, DC in the early 1980s to be
the Division Manager for Human Resources. Dave later retired from that position
at what was by then Bell Atlantic.
While working in
Clarksburg, WV, Dave met the love of his life on a golf course, his future wife
Jackie, after noticing her at Mass. They were married in Charleston, WV
where they settled and raised their family of four children. Dave was a
lifelong devout Catholic and during his years in Charleston served his parish
in numerous lay roles. After retirement, he spent a number of years
volunteering with the Knights of Columbus service organization.
Dave had a strong
passion and respect for the beautiful Maine coastline and waters, especially
the Harpswell area known as Tondreau Point where he spent the summers of his
boyhood and his golden years. He transferred that passion to his wife and
children. Because of his personal efforts, diligence and patience over more
than 15 years, Dave made the area more accessible, yet preserved, for many
others and for generations to come.
To know him, was to love
him. Dave will be fondly remembered as kind, loving, and caring. He
possessed a "joie de vivre” that was infectious. His always-smile and sense of
humor made him universally loved by all. He loved golfing with his family
and friends. If you visited him in Harpswell, you’d likely become his
sailing companion, especially if it was race day with the Quohog Bay sailing
club. He also enjoyed playing the organ, singing, working in the yard and
on his boat. But it was his life-long devotion to Jackie, his best friend
and true love, that was his core.
Dave will be greatly
missed by family and friends. Our loss is heaven’s gift. A
celebration of his life will be held later this year as conditions permit. In
David’s memory, donations may be made to Bath-Brunswick Respite Care, PO Box
668, Bath, ME 04530.
The family is most
grateful to The McLellan, Bath-Brunswick Area Respite Care, and The Garden at
Mid-Coast Senior Health for their kindness and loving care.
Arrangements are by
Stetson’s Funeral Home-12 Federal Street-Brunswick where memorial condolences
may be expressed at stetsonsfuneralhome.com